I enjoyed reading your answers very much but I guess if you answer them again in a couple of months, you will have found much more to answer as you may be more conscious about the things that matter in life now. For learning more about how to get change smooth I can recommend you “Switch – how to change things when change is hard” by Chip and Dan Heath. A great book, thinking about write a “Lessons learned from reading” post about it but guess this might still take some time to come 🙂
I am very sorry for you and your son but remember, life is a highway.
Have a great day and take care,
P.S.: Thank you very much for the links 🙂